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Asteya: Cultivating Contentment Through Non-Stealing

Dwayne Fedoriuk | MAY 1, 2025

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Asteya: Cultivating Contentment Through Non-Stealing

In the fast-moving world of modern wellness — where trends change with the seasons and self-improvement is marketed as a race — it's easy to feel like we’re always reaching for something more. A new habit. A new routine. A new version of ourselves.

But yoga, at its heart, offers a different path. It invites us to pause, to listen, and to live with integrity.

The Yamas, the first limb of the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali, are ethical guidelines for doing just that.

Among them is Asteya, often translated as non-stealing — a principle that gently asks us to consider: What am I taking that isn’t freely given?

And perhaps more importantly: What would it feel like to believe that I am already enough?

What is Asteya?

In Sanskrit, a means "not" and steya means "stealing." On the surface, Asteya is simple: Don’t take what isn’t yours. But like all yogic principles, its true depth unfolds when we explore the subtler layers.

In the modern world, most of us aren’t stealing in the literal sense. But Asteya extends beyond physical possessions. It includes time, energy, attention, credit, ideas, and even emotional labor.

  • Are we overbooking someone else’s time without gratitude?
  • Are we taking credit for an idea that wasn’t fully ours?
  • Are we scrolling endlessly through social media, consuming others’ lives without reflection — or comparison?

Asteya invites us to live more consciously, asking not just What am I taking?, but also Why do I feel the need to take?

The Roots of Stealing: Scarcity and the Culture of “More”

At its core, stealing arises from a sense of lack — a belief that we are missing something, or that what we have isn’t enough.

We live in a world designed to amplify this feeling. Wellness, once rooted in simplicity, has been commodified into a billion-dollar industry. There's always a new smoothie recipe, a better skin-care routine, a fancier meditation cushion. Even spiritual growth can start to feel like a competition.

But Asteya offers a powerful antidote to this culture of more. It invites us into the radical practice of enoughness — trusting that we already have what we need, and that our worth is not measured by what we collect or achieve.

Practicing Asteya On and Off the Mat

On the mat, Asteya shows up when we tune into what our bodies truly need — instead of forcing ourselves into poses to keep up or compare. It’s the difference between honoring your energy and pushing through just to “achieve” a certain shape...yoga is not a competition!

Off the mat, it may look like:

  • Arriving on time as a form of respect.
  • Giving credit where it’s due.
  • Avoiding multitasking when someone’s sharing something important.
  • Not taking on someone’s emotional energy without consent.

In a wellness context, Asteya asks us to stop stealing time from ourselves through overcommitment or burnout. It invites us to create space for rest, reflection, and boundaries.

Asteya and the Earth

Modern life often encourages us to consume without pause — but what are we taking from the Earth in the process?

Asteya invites environmental mindfulness:

  • Choosing sustainable, low-impact wellness products.
  • Supporting local or ethical brands.
  • Reducing waste and rethinking the “need” to constantly upgrade.

Living with less can become an act of deep reverence — not deprivation, but alignment.

The Yoga Sutras on Asteya

In Yoga Sutra II.37, Patanjali writes:

“Asteya-pratiṣṭhāyāṁ sarva-ratna-upasthānam”
“When one is firmly established in non-stealing, all wealth comes.”

This beautiful verse reminds us that when we stop grasping for what isn’t ours, we create the conditions for real abundance to arise. Not just material wealth, but the deeper riches of life — peace, clarity, and connection.

Asteya helps us shift from a mindset of scarcity to one of sufficiency. It teaches us that we don’t need to take — we only need to trust.

Asteya as a Path to Freedom

Letting go of the urge to take what isn’t freely given is, ultimately, an invitation to freedom.

When we release the compulsion to grab, grasp, or compare, we make space for peace. We become available to receive what is truly meant for us — not because we reached harder, but because we finally stopped clinging.

In this way, Asteya is not about restriction — it’s about trust.

In Closing

In the noise of modern life, Asteya is a quiet revolution. A practice of saying:

“I am enough. I have enough. And I trust that life gives me what I need.”

It’s a practice that can start small:

  • A breath before buying.
  • A pause before interrupting.
  • A shift from consuming to creating.

And over time, it becomes a way of being — rooted not in scarcity, but in sufficiency and abundance. In presence and in peace.

In what areas of your life do you notice a tendency to overreach — to take, compare, or grasp? What might change if you trusted that what you have is already enough? That you are enough?

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Dwayne Fedoriuk | MAY 1, 2025

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